Glimpse of the Holy

One of the privileges of being a mother is that one has an inside line to Spirit. 

Not just the random feelings of spirituality that people experience during euphoric experiences or the faded notes of casual holiness one might experience while singing worship songs during church. 

Occasionally, 

One actually gets to see 

SPIRIT. 

Children are, especially as they are becoming verbal, able to express the language of SPIRIT in its purest form. They aren't yet marred by the constraints of this world, and their souls still remember the language of the ONE who Gave them. . . . (do you hear that?)  

Gave Them

breath

hope

love

spirit

life

GOD

life

spirit

love

hope

breath

I had a GLIMPSE of GOD today. 

Because children still know. 

LOVE the 

I AM.

I was sitting on the floor reading a book to my Graciela (someday, I will tell HER story)

and she looked up at the wall, 

and waved.

waved

I stopped. 

What? Who--What--did she just see?

I asked, "Who were you waving at?"

"Just that thing."

"What thing?" Was it happy?"

"Yes."

"What was it?"

"It was Gjhwanna."

(There are truly no letters to describe this sound. The first 'note' is kind of breathing through a "G" sound. It's the closest I've come.)

"What is Gjhwanna?"

(she looks at me like I am seriously nucking futz and she is about to send an FMLA note to my boss about how crazy I am)

"It's GJHWANNA! You know. Your Angel."

Uh. 

My Angel.

ANGEL. 

(if it's possible for souls to have a rhythm, mine just skipped a beat)

"What's Gjhwanna look like?"

(Shrugs.)

"I don't know. A Angel."

(DER)

Did I know this once? Have I see my angel before? 

Once? Did I know who this being is? And how close I am--every moment--to the much larger, much more focused, much more HOLY, reality?

When I was small?

did i KNOW?

THIS IS HOLY

AND I AM IN  AWE.

GOD WITH US.

selah

Children are for Humility

There is nothing quite so humbling as children. 

The perspective they bring puts the lid on the crock of any delusions of grandeur I may have of myself, typically at the moments in which I am almost convinced that I am ALL THAT. 

Between a massive belch at the church potluck and the tantrum in the salad isle at the grocery store, or the statement in the drink isle to the local grandma that he's tasted beer, it's a wonder I don't just shrivel up before walking out the door in the morning. Yes, Pride is safely tucked away in the B.C. era of my life. 

Some examples, so you may laugh at my good fortune:

       I am riding my bike, with the wind in my hair. I can feel the power in my legs . . . pedal, Pedal, PEDAL. That little just-turned-three blondie calls out to me from her tag-a-long trailer, "Mommy, put my shade down." 

     "Why?" I ask. "It's not very hot today." 

     "Because I don't want to look at your butt!"

     From my middle child: "Mom, when you were little, were you in black and white?" This is also the child who told his teacher that I am as "pretty as a zebra". 

     And from my eldest, in a hot wheels driving "class" with his younger siblings: "Today, class, we are going to learn how to speed without getting caught." 

These short people (who will only be short for a few more years till they are ALL going to be looking down at me from the rafters--thank you, Clay) have given me a depth I never knew existed. They have given me the ability to be in a euphoria that only exists in movies and the simultaneous capacity to be emotionally anhiliated. 

If they grow up to be God-being, people-loving, justice-seeking, beauty-seeing, courageous-asking, happy-living people, I will rejoice. That will be the ultimate success. 

There is a strange paradox in exhaustion. At once, one feels a primal, despairing physical weariness, while also sensing a vast spiritual plain. It's almost as if--instead of thinking, rationalizing and plotting a logical response, we are simply reacting on the most basic instincts.

Let's face it: as spiritual beings, we respond spiritually to our most basic needs. We seek to survive, to protect and to maintain. We aren't planning, praying creatures in those moments. We are simply moving. 

Over the past several weeks (couple of months) I have both felt moments of exhaustion in myself and observed it in others. Primal exhaustion. The kind where your body begs for sleep and your heart aches to not feel ANYTHING. (I have also had some really, really, really rested and rejoicing days. And I am surrounded by amazing people, family and friends who allow me to be real and who keep me grounded. Lest you think I am at the intersection of "Numb" and "Depths of Despair" rather than on the steady incline of "Perspective". 

While I could be philosophical and boring, I would rather share some of the quotes and comments that have spoken to me and kept my spiritual perspective intact: (disclaimer: I will attempt to give credit where it is due, but in some instances just latched on to the language instead of who wrote it. If there are corrections, please post them in comments.)

• "Jesus liked messy. He tended to run toward it. We think of the disciples he chose to do ministry with, the stories of the misfits and the outcasts he loved so well. He gravitated toward people that didn't have their crap together."  -Jamie the Very Worst Missionary www.theveryworstmissionary.com
• "Limp, anemic sentiments will not stand in the face of a world that is not as it should be." -From One Degree to Another www.natepyle.com
• "Today while the blossoms still cling to the vine, I'll taste your strawberries; I'll drink your sweet wine. A million tomorrows shall all pass away 'ere I forget all the joy that is mine today." -This was on Lydia West's FB wall. I don't know who the original author is. 
• "God doesn't sit anywhere with a big wand moving mountains and directing job interviews and making my hair turn out decent today.  God instead sits in our spirits and we move, God moves, ideas move, hopes move......." -My very own wise sister-wife cousin, Tonya. You can view her blog here.
• “I must learn to love the fool in me – the one who feels too much, talks too much, takes too many chances, wins sometimes and loses often, lacks self-control, loves and hates, hurts and gets hurt, promises and breaks promises, laughs and cries.  It alone protects me against that utterly self-controlled, masterful tyrant whom I also harbor and who would rob me of human aliveness, humility, and dignity but for my fool.” -Theodore I. Rubin, MD. Also found and posted by my cousin in a guest post on another favorite blog, www.femonite.com.

There are a lot of really painful, tragic stories around me every day. There is an equal portion of triumph, even in the broken faces of those who choose to keep moving, just to be moving. 

I choose to see them, really see them, and respond. I refuse to put my head in the sand and ignore the Namaste of those around me just because it is uncomfortable to look at them, just because I don't think I have the emotional energy. Even on the days I am tapped-out and am only moving with them.